To help relieve their families of some of these decisions, an increasing number of people are planning their own funerals, designating their funeral preferences, and sometimes even paying for them in advance. They see funeral planning as an extension of will and estate planning.

Planning
Thinking ahead can help you make informed and thoughtful decisions about funeral arrangements. It allows you to choose the specific items you want and need and compare the prices offered by several funeral providers. It also spares your survivors the stress of making these decisions under the pressure of time and strong emotions.

You can make arrangements directly with a funeral establishment or through a funeral planning or memorial society - a nonprofit organization that provides information about funerals and disposition but doesn't offer funeral services. If you choose to contact such a group, recognize that while some funeral homes may include the word "society" in their names, they are not nonprofit organizations.

One other important consideration when planning a funeral pre-need is where the remains will be buried, entombed or scattered. In the short time between the death and burial of a loved one, many family members find themselves rushing to buy a cemetery plot or grave - often without careful thought or a personal visit to the site. That's why it's in the family's best interest to buy cemetery plots before you need them.

You may wish to make decisions about your arrangements in advance, but not pay for them in advance. Keep in mind that over time, prices may go up. It's a good idea to review and revise your decisions every few years, and to make sure your family is aware of your wishes.

It's a good idea
to review and revise
your decision
every few years.


We put your preferences in writing, give copies to family members and your attorney, and keep a copy in our establishment. Don't designate your preferences in your will, because a will often is not found or read until after the funeral. And avoid putting the only copy of your preferences in a safe deposit box. That's because your family may have to make arrangements on a weekend or holiday, before the box can be opened.

Prepaying
Millions of Americans have entered into contracts to prearrange their funerals and prepay some or all of the expenses involved. Laws of individual states govern the prepayment of funeral goods and services; various states have laws to help ensure that these advance payments are available to pay for the funeral products and services when they're needed.

If you're thinking about prepaying for funeral goods and services, it's important to consider these issues before putting down any money:

Be sure to tell your family about the plans you've made; let them know where the documents are filed. If your family isn't aware that you've made plans, your wishes may not be carried out. And if family members don't know that you've prepaid the funeral costs, they could end up paying for the same arrangements.

Please contact us if you have questions regarding

If you would like to contact us regarding your arrangements, please fill out as much information as you feel comfortable with on our PRE-PLANNING  form.


We will need the following information to complete the certificate of death, social security form, and for the obituary notices that will be placed in the newspaper.  Please call one of our Pre-Need Managers, Mr. Fred (Federico) Wilhelmi at 915-309-4448 or Mr. Victor Corral at 915-790-7108 or print this form and complete it to the best of your ability and mail it to:

San Jose Funeral Home-Fabens,  300 W.  Main St., Fabens, TX 79838
     fax--915-764-2254
     e-mail  to:
sanjosefabens@windstream.net

                                        OR

San Jose Funeral Home-East, 10950 Pellicano Dr., El Paso, Texas 79935
     fax--915-590-8711
     e-mail  to:
sjfh-e@att.net

                                        OR

San Jose Funeral Home, 601 S. Virginia St., El Paso, Texas 79901
     fax to 915-532-2304,
     e-mail  to: info@sanjosefuneralhome.com

                                                 

 Full Name of Person For Whom Contract Is Being Purchased
Age
Mailing Address
County
City
State
Birth Date
Place
Father
Mother (including maiden name)
Level of Education
Occupation
Spouse
Cemetery for Burial
Life History, Places of Residence, Memberships, Involvements, Hobbies
Children
Number of Grandchildren
Number of Great Grandchildren
Number of Great Great Grandchildren
Brothers and Sisters
Other Survivors
Please list the CASKET BEARERS you wish to have for this service. Six minimum, please.
Casketbearer 1.
Casketbearer 2.
Casketbearer 3.
Casketbearer 4.
Casketbearer 5.
Casketbearer 6.
Additional Casketbearers
Submitters Name
Submitters Email
Submitters Daytime Phone Number
Submitters Evening Phone Number
Please note that we will need the Social Security Number as well. Please be prepared to provide the number over the phone or in person.                            

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